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6 Creative Ways to Teach Your Child to Proofread

I have yet to meet a student who proofreads willingly. However, you can teach  your child to proofread with less hassle using some simple strategies. Best of all, you can add some fun to the process!

Teach Your Child to Proofread Using Games

One of the best ways to teach your child to proofread is by setting up a treasure hunt for mistakes. Go through the paper yourself and make notes about categories of errors that you wish the student to find. Make note of things like capitalization problems, missing punctuation, spelling, and so forth. Be sure to figure out how many of each type of problem you see. Now send your child on a treasure hunt. Challenge him or her to find the mistakes that you already know are there.

Make the game more challenging by providing only the numbers of types of errors instead of telling the student the categories. For example, challenge him or her to figure out which type of mistake was made three times in the paper, and which one happened six times.

You can also indulge in a role-playing game. Give your child a classic red pen and have him or her correct the paper as the teacher would. Make the focus of the activity finding and correcting mistakes instead of having a “perfect” paper, and then “grade” the student’s work based on how well they played teacher.

Teach Your Child to Proofread with Independent Strategies

As your student matures, he or she will need to take on the responsibility of editing his or her own work without prompting. Instill some of these habits to help teach your child to proofread:

  • Always use the grammar checker and spell checker built into most word processing software.  There is absolutely no harm in using the tools that have been provided. Just be sure your student realizes that these are far from infallible, and there is no substitute for going over the writing by hand as well.
  • Show your student how reading through the paper backwards can disrupt tricks of the eye where we see what we expect to see. By reading from the end to the beginning, your learner will need to concentrate on each word individually, and will catch spelling mistakes and even some punctuation and capitalization errors.
  • Create a proofreading and editing checklist with your student. List categories of errors, with a focus on the common types that trouble him or her. Use the checklist to guide proofreading and editing.  Go through the paper once for each category, just looking for that type of error.
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Teach your child to proofread

3 Reasons Your Child Hates Homework (and How to Fix Them)

Do you have a homework battle at your house?  You’re not alone!

A recent survey by the National Center for Family Literacy found that over half of the families surveyed struggled with homework.  A whopping 46% of the parents said they had trouble even understanding the assignment enough to provide some help!

No wonder getting the job done is a fight.  But sometimes there are underlying problems. Here are three suggestions that may help at your house.

The Homework is Too Tough

Sometimes kids’ skills just aren’t where they are expected to be for their grade level.  Symptoms of this problem (besides an all-out refusal to do homework) include:

  • low grades
  • reluctance to show you completed work to check
  • taking far too much time on homework on a daily basis
  • responses that are way off instead of just a little bit wrong

If you think the work is beyond your child right now, talk to the teacher.  Explain that your student is struggling, and give some tangible proof that the struggle is real (as opposed to just a “behavior problem”).  Ask the teacher to take a close look and get some extra help for the child if needed.

And do what you can to build up the weak skills at home.  Take advantage of the free classes, worksheets and activities available on-line, and insist that the kid completes some.  Or hire a tutor.  One-on-one instruction works wonders.  (Here’s how I can help: CLICK HERE for info on tutoring)

There is Trouble Starting Homework

Sometimes getting started is half (or even ALL) of the battle.  Your student procrastinates, asks for help before even reading the directions, and wants you to affirm every single answer before he or she can continue.

These are signs that kids have poor confidence in their abilities.  Lots of things can cause this, including rough experiences in the classroom or even too much help in the past from anxious parents.

Try setting a timer for a few short minutes. Challenge your child to get a small number of problems completed, then check the work.  Praise work completed instead of work correct.  And when you do your homework check-over, don’t nitpick.  Don’t even correct!  Let them stand or not on their own efforts.  Does it *really* matter if the homework is perfect if they are not the ones doing it?

The Work is Hurried and Sloppy

Some kids sit down willingly for homework time, then hurry through. They do a haphazard job that is sure to yield a failing grade.  They skip problems or answer only the first part of each question. Their writing is practically illegible. In other words, the work stinks!

These kids often perceive a reward for ‘getting the work done.’ They do not perceive the benefits of doing a good job on that work. Often, the culprit is the reasoning that the quicker the work is done, the quicker they can move on to some more pleasant activity.

The cure is to insist on appropriate quality in the finished product.  And if the homework effort does not take up the entirety of the scheduled homework time, add in some extra practice activities of your own devising.  Every student has weak areas that can be strengthened.  And when the reward for hurrying through the work disappears, the quality will likely improve.

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NOW is the Time to Fix Homework Headaches

Without a homework habit, frustration is sure to come your way.This poor woman is up to her eyeballs in frustration.  How often do you end up looking like this when you need to get your kids going on their homework?  There ARE solutions.  One important strategy is to build a “homework habit.”

Be Consistent with the Homework Habit

One reason that kids protest homework so mightily is that the tactic often works.

Counter this by standing your ground, each and every day, and insisting that time be spent on improving academic skills.  Schoolwork, of course, has first priority, but if there is not enough schoolwork to fill the them, then grab some of your own back-pocket ideas and get the kids moving on them.

If you are consistent with your expectation that the kids WILL be working on academic pursuits for a certain amount of time each and every day, then the protests will quickly dwindle down to nothing.  Just like they protested brushing their teeth mightily back when they were toddlers, but you stood your ground and now that they are older they do it automatically, the same strategy will work with homework.

Make It a Daily Homework Habit

How much time SHOULD kids be spending on their academic pursuits each day?  This is a great place to use your own judgment but several notable professional groups (like the National PTA and the NEA) recommend approximately 10 minutes for each year of school.  So first graders should spend ten minutes daily, third graders should be working for thirty minutes, and so on up to twelfth graders working approximately two hours.

The important part is that word, daily.  It’s not “only if the teacher sends homework” or “only on school days,” or “not over vacation days.”  DAILY means DAILY.  Now, you can negotiate a day off here or there, especially as a reward for consistency or for a job well done on a project, but for the most part, if you enforce the DAILY habit, the kids will quit protesting.

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